Reports :

Letter
relationship progressed mail by mail.she never asked for anything at all.
refused to accept anyything offeredwe fell in love,she went to see about comeim=ng here,i had offered to go there.
costs were correct from my previouse checking.she did not even ask then for money.
i offered to pay for the visas and medical costs,and contract penalties. we talked after thisand all was normal.
she called me,but i was at work.she had said she would try.
left message,but only header arrived. nothing since,5 days approx.was checking my space for her,then web showed a facebook account.thats how i found this site.
if i am wrong,or she is reformed,i cannot apologize enough.